Five warning signs you are dating loser
If he cannot man up enough to pay for dinner and show you that he can be the bread-winner (or modern day “hunter” alpha male), then he’ll never man up and you’ll always be taking care of him.
Really, don’t you want a man who will take care of you?
I should have a magnet on my fridge that says, “You’re not the worst I’ve dated.” Seriously, you can’t imagine some of the losers I’ve had the misfortune of meeting. Sometimes you think you’re dating a great guy, but then later you realize he wasn’t really that great.
Maybe it was love that blinded you (or sex…sex can be pretty blinding), or maybe it was just that he was so suave you didn’t notice until it was too late.
Get rid of him; he’ll only cause you trouble later.
A man’s first love is his mother; a man who does not love his mother is not really a man – he’s a loser.
Any man who really cares about you will care about how you feel and what you’re thinking.
If you are dating a guy who never asks why you’re upset, doesn’t seem interested in how your day was, or couldn’t give a damn if you are feeling lonely tonight, then you’re not really dating. He’s a loser and not only will he not care about your feelings, but he’ll wreck your heart if you keep him around.
He will never consider you his equal, he will never put you first, and he will not take your opinions and feelings into consideration because he puts himself ahead of you (and everyone else).
Now, if your guy occasionally walks ahead of you because he’s super excited over something (the ball game you’re heading to or the new video game he’s nerding over), that’s okay.